tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7035053.post113771331263458856..comments2024-01-18T19:54:13.876+11:00Comments on The Other Andrew: Status AnxietyThe Other Andrewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12492925896131382172noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7035053.post-1137832046088528472006-01-21T19:27:00.000+11:002006-01-21T19:27:00.000+11:00nice post TOA - I love Alain de Botton, he's a thi...nice post TOA - I love Alain de Botton, he's a thinker for our generation. the Filewoods and I have mused over his tv series and books a fair few times. gah, just trying to think of that first series that showed on Aunty - the one about philosophers? still my favourite.<BR/><BR/>I love stuff in general, and I really love *my* stuff - but I don't usually covet other people's stuff. part of that is because I love the feelings and memories in my stuff and the reasons how/why and from whom I got stuff in the first place. other people's stuff don't have any of that.<BR/><BR/>I have never been a label whore... if something is aesthetically pleasing or promotes a good feeling, I don't care whether it came from a Wank-o-rama Boutique or the Salvos. expect of course I'm more likely to be able to afford the thing of beauty from the Salvos! ;) <BR/><BR/>in fact, stuff I've found on the side of the road with Mr Manly-Thighs during council clean ups have been really rewarding, because I've saved things from land fill that just shouldn't go there - a Deco high chair, a hand-thrown pottery bowl, an amazing domed-glass picture frame, a fab Deco hall runner - and I have a fun day with someone I care about.<BR/><BR/>and I've got to say that in general I don't, and never have, set myself goals to attain of a material nature. I never have. sometimes I actually suspect that a teeny-tiny bit of that wouldn't go astray, because it's things like that which make people get off their arse and go and do stuff. and achieve stuff. sometimes I don't think I've got an awful lot to show for, as far as 'achievements' are concerned, if you know what I mean? but ingerenal I feel quite content with my lot.<BR/><BR/>btw, I don't think the bit about not wanting to go out with a crowd of people because you couldn't relate to them was in any way bitter or judgemental. I've felt exactly that way before. it's all about knowing who you are and what you want to do, and knowing who you want to do it with! <BR/><BR/>you know you did the thing which made you feel the most comfortable with youself. can't ask for better than that.worldpeace and a speedboathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00735857941964784431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7035053.post-1137760822082942622006-01-20T23:40:00.000+11:002006-01-20T23:40:00.000+11:00well done andrew. I sometimes struggle with the th...well done andrew. <BR/>I sometimes struggle with the thought that I am not the party girl I used to be...but you know what? I like the life I have now so much more than I did back then. I feel things more deeply, I do things I want to do and best of all, I remember them in the morning. <BR/>Sounds like it might be more fun to have a nice sunny brunch with this crowd instead of a smoky evening. <BR/>Don't stop being the person you have become.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7035053.post-1137742637638579162006-01-20T18:37:00.000+11:002006-01-20T18:37:00.000+11:00Whoa! this is deep stuff for my post midnight snac...Whoa! this is deep stuff for my post midnight snack break. I'll say this: I let a brand new Jaguar ruin a perfectly beautiful friendship because of envy. I worked harder, longer...busted my fanny for all the very same 'toys' but just couldn't keep up. It was draining and I walked away from it. No one else knew it was all about that damn car. But I knew. Know.<BR/><BR/>Folks jokingly call me a 'label whore' nowadays. That's all in good fun; maybe so. What they don't know is how desperately edgy my life was living in a roach-trap and buying shirts 3-for-a dollar at the Goodwill. Been there, too. That keeps me grounded today when the Versace jeans don't come in my size. Yep.Michael Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11939701498074991413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7035053.post-1137729143404977022006-01-20T14:52:00.000+11:002006-01-20T14:52:00.000+11:00Maybe i'm lucky or just lazy, but i'm not envious ...Maybe i'm lucky or just lazy, but i'm not envious of anyone or anything.<BR/>I not very materialist by nature either, i have a lot of crap but its wierd crap.<BR/> Yes, being rich would be nice, so i could make my family safe and comfortable, but i wouldn't want to look like Kerry Paker (esp now)Cozalcoatlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13860756021115471862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7035053.post-1137716772926032162006-01-20T11:26:00.000+11:002006-01-20T11:26:00.000+11:00A well thought out wake-up call, thanks Andrew. I'...A well thought out wake-up call, thanks Andrew. I've been struggling with this over the past few years, trying to decipher the difference between what I am content with and what I want because I feel the need to be like "the Joneses". Attachment is a curious thing, and perhaps the most profound part of the Dharma.Krinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11980216332202750739noreply@blogger.com